I opened up and am paying the price.

So me and my fiancé have been having some problems and I finally got the nerve to open up about it. Low and behold it blew up in my face. First of we've been dating almost ten years now. I'm 30 she's 26. Over past few months she's expressed her concerns over marriage by saying things like "is this all there is", "we're just like roommates", and our sex life rapidly spiraled down after our engagement to 5 times over last year. Finally tonight couldn't take it anymore and spilled beans about how I felt this marriage was a mistake for all previous reasons as well as wouldn't want to subject kids to our unstable relationship. So thinking she too would open up from her brief comments in past she blows up on me and says she loves me and wants things to work. All I can think is this is a coping mechanism of anger trying to hide what she really feels since she already kinda said it in the past. Either way now I'm up at 3am writing this cuz I feel like a POS for saying how I feel. Am I doing the right thing or do I give the relationship another shot? Posted via Mobile Device

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