| So things really aren't going well with my marriage and after reading many posts here I really feel divorce is my only option for things to ever come right. He's not going to change. He's never going to stay the loving, supportive, passionate man that he seems to be able to switch on and off whenever I threaten to leave. Despite telling me daily that he loves me with all his heart, my feelings are never considered, my needs always come last. He made the effort last night to say that he knows he's been distant lately and that he's been neglecting me. He apologised, then promptly gave me a goodnight kiss and rolled over to go to sleep, this after having spent about an hour talking about arbitrary stuff. I explained to him how I've been feeling unwanted and he just said it's not true, that he still finds me attractive and loves me very much. I couldn't take lying there while he just went to sleep so went and sat in the lounge. For a change he did mak e the effort to come and sit by me, but never sat a word. Just sat and watched tv while I sat there crying. After the movie he asked if I was coming to bed, when I said no he got up, gave me a kiss and went to bed. This morning he's chatting and carrying on like everything's fine. I need a man's opinion please. Can men really change or do I only have two options: Get over needing love, affection, support etc and just live with it or divorce? |
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