| I live in the states and I seeked help online and came across this wonderful looking forum board. Well like the title says we have been dating for 6 year since high school and it's been the most intense feeling that we have ever felt! When I'm around her to this day I feel so much comfort. Within our 4th year dating we had out first child wonderful everything is great loving each other having sex regularly working and enjoying life.pause !now a little background about her, she comes from a Argentinian family and her mom has always been abusive verbally and mentally her mom is divorced and is a gold digger with men in and out of her life and when I first dated her I noticed she doesn't produce a lot of emotions and and doesn't show either. Her mother never let her have friends so when she had issues with past relationships or with ours she always had to swollow it and hide it. Now back to the story() 1 year and 7 motha later we have our second chil d and everything seemed fine afterwards as of right now he's 7 1/2 months old and he's just a joy everything seems fine. Now within the last 2 1/2 months I noticed a change in our relationship that she doesn't really kiss like she did before or show the emotions or affection like before, I just started a new job (11-10-13)and I work over night 7pm-7am an this is the first time she sleeps without me last week I noticed a communication change and so I take her to dinner to ask what's going on and she tells me that she doesn't have love for me and she loves me more like a best friend.So I take her and our oldest kid to a amusement park to talk and maybe build our relationship and change what we talked about like that she wants me to be more serious and to etc.. So I started my change so I came back from the amusement park on 1-26-13 and I went to work that night 7p-7am and so throughout the night we were texting everything seems so good but then I get this gut feeling and I fee l like there's a anomaly in a story she told me about where she was so I get off work on Friday morning a d I see her phone on the bed I had too... I went throught the messages and she kissed another guy a s she was hanging out with him all night so I flipped out and started asking and etc.. Now I'm here I hope I can get some help or insight. |
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