My husband and i have been married for 3 years. Sex was great before marriage but it has been steadily decreased to the point where I call it sexless (once 3-4weeks). It drives me crazy, depressed, humiliated, inconfidence to myself and even angry at him.
I talked to him about my feelings. He said he is still attracted to me but his back pain and medicine he is taking make him not want sex (he has disk problem) which is totally understandable but It has been bothering me so long and so much that I just feel like I want to shut it off altogether.
And i did kindof give it up. I try not to think about sex. If i do, i just watch porn and masturbate. The problem is... he would want me once in awhile and It will make me want him and then I have to go through the stress all over again.
I try really hard not to take it personally but sexless life detach myself from him and make me upset at him.
We are considering a surgery for him. But it won't be near future. This winter at the ealiest if we get lucky.
I don't think I can last that long. What should I do? Would shutting it off ever work?
Thank you in advance.
I talked to him about my feelings. He said he is still attracted to me but his back pain and medicine he is taking make him not want sex (he has disk problem) which is totally understandable but It has been bothering me so long and so much that I just feel like I want to shut it off altogether.
And i did kindof give it up. I try not to think about sex. If i do, i just watch porn and masturbate. The problem is... he would want me once in awhile and It will make me want him and then I have to go through the stress all over again.
I try really hard not to take it personally but sexless life detach myself from him and make me upset at him.
We are considering a surgery for him. But it won't be near future. This winter at the ealiest if we get lucky.
I don't think I can last that long. What should I do? Would shutting it off ever work?
Thank you in advance.
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