My abusive ex's parents want to visit me and my son.
They live very far away, so they would need a flight to come here.
They suggested they come to my apartment.
Now, let me be clear, I have NO desire to keep them away from their grand-son, but I'm not sure how comfortable I feel with them coming over here. I don't want my ex knowing where I live, and I'm not sure how much I trust his parents.
Their plan was to fly over here, rent an apartment and rent a car, and they would come visit us at my apartment.
They are saddened that their son is in jail but they seem to have an understanding that it needed to be done.
P.S: my ex will not and cannot be bailed out of jail. My lawyer told me this.
And in case anyone wonders to what extent the abuse was, you can read my other thread, but in short, he was physically abusive (punching, slapping, throwing things at me, smashed my head against a wall, fridge, door), verbally and emotionally. My son and I were held hostage (not allowed to see the light of day without him and he never wanted to go out anyway). He limited my food consumption when I NEED food. (I'm not obese or even overweight, I'm actually underweight).
When the time came where I was leaving, he nearly killed us.
So I'm terrified of even the possibility of his parents telling him where we live.
Obviously I expressed this to them, they say that under no circumstance will they do that.
But I'm not sure. My gut doesn't feel okay with this idea. I'd rather take myself and my son to their rental to see them, and have my apartment be completely private.
Help?
They live very far away, so they would need a flight to come here.
They suggested they come to my apartment.
Now, let me be clear, I have NO desire to keep them away from their grand-son, but I'm not sure how comfortable I feel with them coming over here. I don't want my ex knowing where I live, and I'm not sure how much I trust his parents.
Their plan was to fly over here, rent an apartment and rent a car, and they would come visit us at my apartment.
They are saddened that their son is in jail but they seem to have an understanding that it needed to be done.
P.S: my ex will not and cannot be bailed out of jail. My lawyer told me this.
And in case anyone wonders to what extent the abuse was, you can read my other thread, but in short, he was physically abusive (punching, slapping, throwing things at me, smashed my head against a wall, fridge, door), verbally and emotionally. My son and I were held hostage (not allowed to see the light of day without him and he never wanted to go out anyway). He limited my food consumption when I NEED food. (I'm not obese or even overweight, I'm actually underweight).
When the time came where I was leaving, he nearly killed us.
So I'm terrified of even the possibility of his parents telling him where we live.
Obviously I expressed this to them, they say that under no circumstance will they do that.
But I'm not sure. My gut doesn't feel okay with this idea. I'd rather take myself and my son to their rental to see them, and have my apartment be completely private.
Help?
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