I think my husband has an issue with looking/staring at women... or I'm highly delusional.
Once, when I was pregnant, we were sitting in the OBGYN's waiting room, and a girl was walking by, I looked at my husband, and I could have sworn he was STARING at her. Up and down. His eyes were looking in her direction, and down at her ass, he didn't look away until she was out of view. I confronted him on it, and he said he wasn't, he didn't even know who I was talking about apparently. He doesn't recall staring at someone and he could have just been staring off into space, not even aware or whatever.
Another time, he was talking to a friend and a woman walked by and when I looked at him, he was looking up at her direction. Looked like he was looking at her ass. Again, when I confronted him, he had no idea who I was talking about, and that he was just looking at his friend talking to him. He does have a tendency to look around while he's talking to someone (even with me at home and nobody is around).
Another time, we were both sitting down and reading something, a girl walked by, and when I looked at him, he was looking at her (again it looked just like he was looking at her ass). He said " do you really think I just checked her out? " he said that because he noticed I was frazzled.
When I asked him about it, he said he just looked up in acknowledgment that there was a person, and in case he needed to move out of the way.
I'm sure someone will ask why I confront him, and the reason is because he swore/swears up and down that he does not check out other women. He acknowledges that people are around men and women but doesn't check women out.
He has put up with several fights/argruements over this, and for 2 1/2 years swears that he doesn't check out other women. We only fight about this he claims to be tired of being accused.
I have a big issue with being lied to, and if he does check out other women, at least be honest about it. Don't lie to me about it at the very least. That's what this boils down to.
Now, my question is, is he right that I'm acting delusional? Would someone put up with fights over this for 2 1/2 years? Would someone defend their character for 2 1/2 years? Would he SWEAR for 2 1/2 years that he doesn't look at other women?
He has even said " why would I put up with this for 2 1/2 years if I looked at butts? If I did, I would break up with you and look at butts rather than put up with this. "
Once, when I was pregnant, we were sitting in the OBGYN's waiting room, and a girl was walking by, I looked at my husband, and I could have sworn he was STARING at her. Up and down. His eyes were looking in her direction, and down at her ass, he didn't look away until she was out of view. I confronted him on it, and he said he wasn't, he didn't even know who I was talking about apparently. He doesn't recall staring at someone and he could have just been staring off into space, not even aware or whatever.
Another time, he was talking to a friend and a woman walked by and when I looked at him, he was looking up at her direction. Looked like he was looking at her ass. Again, when I confronted him, he had no idea who I was talking about, and that he was just looking at his friend talking to him. He does have a tendency to look around while he's talking to someone (even with me at home and nobody is around).
Another time, we were both sitting down and reading something, a girl walked by, and when I looked at him, he was looking at her (again it looked just like he was looking at her ass). He said " do you really think I just checked her out? " he said that because he noticed I was frazzled.
When I asked him about it, he said he just looked up in acknowledgment that there was a person, and in case he needed to move out of the way.
I'm sure someone will ask why I confront him, and the reason is because he swore/swears up and down that he does not check out other women. He acknowledges that people are around men and women but doesn't check women out.
He has put up with several fights/argruements over this, and for 2 1/2 years swears that he doesn't check out other women. We only fight about this he claims to be tired of being accused.
I have a big issue with being lied to, and if he does check out other women, at least be honest about it. Don't lie to me about it at the very least. That's what this boils down to.
Now, my question is, is he right that I'm acting delusional? Would someone put up with fights over this for 2 1/2 years? Would someone defend their character for 2 1/2 years? Would he SWEAR for 2 1/2 years that he doesn't look at other women?
He has even said " why would I put up with this for 2 1/2 years if I looked at butts? If I did, I would break up with you and look at butts rather than put up with this. "
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