I've met this guy 3 times, everything was great. Last time he stayed over at mine but he was really intimate with me and cuddling and petting me a lot, and gave me the impression he liked me (I mean I don't let any old guy cuddle me if I don't like them, so I assume it's the same the other way around - also no sex happened and he was fine with it). After that, everything was cool and he was still showing interest in me, but even a couple of months before that he would disappear for days on end, and then come back and act all normal as if he still likes me. Anyway a couple of weeks ago I got so busy that I deactivated my Facebook without even telling him, since we hadn't spoken for 4 days and I didn't think he would care. A couple of days later he sent me an email (I gave him my email address as a one off because he sent me a song) asking how I was. So I don't know whether to take that as if he went through his sent box to look for my email, and thus showing that h e cared in some way. But since then we've been emailing sporadically. My Facebook also automatically reactivated on the Sunday just gone, and he's emailed since then despite my account showing on Facebook.
I'm just so confused because I've only known him a few months, and I don't want to say anything and ruin it because I do like him. I mean we haven't even kissed, but he's really shy too so I don't want to make him feel awkward. Should I just say something or carry on speaking every few days which is frustrating me? He is a genuinely nice guy and I don't want him to think he has to talk to me in case he doesn't want to upset me. We told each other when we started talking that we hated people who lied and just stopped talking, so I assume that he will be honest.
I mean can someone really be that busy? He hasn't got a job at the moment but he has moved house closer to his friends so he may be busy with them.
Put the internet to work for you.
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