how do wives want H's to handle the dry spell?

So were in a rut its obvious. We had been a fairly regular 3x a week for years, I don't count, I just know. Then something changed. A couple nights I realize she was just going through the motions. Then one night I made a pass when I thought she was interested and we had a small fight. We talked later and she said that honestly there was only a couple days right after her period that she needed me inside her. She said the rest of the month she normally just goes along, unless I wow her with something dominant.
This has tanked my libido. And our marriage isn't going to be good if we stop having sex, it used to be a strong point. Now I can feel all the little things that I used to ignore becoming major annoying items. Help.

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