Married 11 years, 3 kids, early 40s. My husband has a very high drive, and he wants multiple orgasms, like 3, every time we have sex. That's a source of tension, but it's kind of a separate issue (which I've posted about before). We don't always have time or energy for this in the evenings. So now, we are having more sex in the mornings. I am not usually much in the mood and would rather get some extra sleep, but I try to get into it for his sake. The one thing I really dislike in the morning is giving him a bj. It's not appealing or sexy, and he needs a shower and I'm usually too thirsty to really do it properly--it's just dry and unpleasant. I've told him this many times (in more gentle terms, usually) and I'm happy to give him a bj in the evening. I do it almost every time we have sex in the evening. But he keeps asking in the morning, and I feel like a jerk for saying no, and I'm also getting angry that he won't back off that issue. He does have 1-2 o rgasms from intercourse if we have a morning encounter, so it's not like I'm coldly rejecting him. Am I being unreasonable? Is he being unreasonable?
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