I just found this site because something has been bothering me and I would like some feedback and thoughts...
So, my wife just traveled about 1200 miles away for some training for her job. She left a couple weeks ago and will be gone until late July. She spends all day in a classroom with the same group of people, most of which are men. I'm not opposed to her having male friends, she has plenty of them here at home and I don't care. But I know these people. I don't know any of the guys that she spends time with now. Lately she's been going out to dinner one-on-one with some of the (mostly single) guys that she's in training with, sometimes for more than two hours. I feel very uncomfortable with this but I don't know what I should say or do, if anything. Am I just being paranoid or irrational? Should I tell her about my concerns? I don't want her to not have friends while she's there, but at the same time I don't really like this situation.
Some info: We've been married less than a year, I'm 23 and she's 25.
So, my wife just traveled about 1200 miles away for some training for her job. She left a couple weeks ago and will be gone until late July. She spends all day in a classroom with the same group of people, most of which are men. I'm not opposed to her having male friends, she has plenty of them here at home and I don't care. But I know these people. I don't know any of the guys that she spends time with now. Lately she's been going out to dinner one-on-one with some of the (mostly single) guys that she's in training with, sometimes for more than two hours. I feel very uncomfortable with this but I don't know what I should say or do, if anything. Am I just being paranoid or irrational? Should I tell her about my concerns? I don't want her to not have friends while she's there, but at the same time I don't really like this situation.
Some info: We've been married less than a year, I'm 23 and she's 25.
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