So about 3-4 months ago now I think I started talking to this guy on TSR and I found him really attractive and he said the same. Some stuff happened and then we stopped talking then we started and I found out he had a girlfriend so that halted our flirting (and talking) forever. So there's this guy in my school that looks/acts similar to that guy and we got really close. Which was great because I also found him really attractive. Long story short after a couple weeks build up we kissed and he kind of told me I'm his girlfriend (didn't really ask). Fine, fast forward a couple of weeks later and I'm just really confused about this relationship and starting to question whether the only reason I'm in it is because he reminds me of that guy? I really enjoy this guys company but our texting is kind of sparse since he's always gaming and I just feel like it's not really a relationship. Hardly any hand holding kissing hugging or anything like that...
What should I do now. I'm considering contacting that old guy but I think he's still with his gf. Oh extra note, I randomly stumbled on the fact he had a gf he didn't tell me. He was still making sexual advances regardless which leads me to think he was going to use me??
i just have low self esteem I think and it kind of baffles me that someone would actually like me so I think this stems from the insecurity that my current boyfriend maybe regrets his choice and doesn't actually like me...
we talk quite a bit and he comes up to me in college a lot but he takes like hours to reply sometimes and his responses can be a bit weird... I overthink everything a lot.
I'm just not sure how to feel about this relationship, this other guy or myself
any advice?
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