My husband wants a divorce, he is very stubborn on the issue despite my efforts to please him. I love him so much and can't/won't imagine life without him. I made a promise to God to be with him through everything. We have two young children. 8 and 5 years old. He is really serious, although he has not pursued a lawyer yet. He has told me he doesn't love me, doesn't want me, he doesn't want me to make him happy, and just wants me to leave. He doesn't want to make me happy anymore. He has all his emotions turned off. I caused the initial argument, and regret it deeply. I noticed him being distant from me, but not only me, our children as well. that is what our argument began as. We haven't had God in our marriage, but this has made me turn to him more than ever. I have faith we can get through this, I don't want our family broken.
I have prayed every chance I can every day since. The odd thing is, when I feel we are doing good, (he calls me willingly from work to talk, sleeps in the same bed, we even spent time together on a walk alone) I wake up to find him pulling away again, changing clothes with the door shut, and he changed my picture off his phone. He shows so much anger toward everything, I've been praying for him and for us, but I'm beginning to lose hope. I love him, he is my husband. but he doesn't want me, doesn't care if I love him, and more. I ask you all for prayers for my family to stay together as one, wholesome, and filled with love. We've been together 10 years and married since 2008. He said he would see a counselor with me, but just to please me, that he won't change his mind, and nothing will. so please pray, pray hard, this is the only thing i have ever reached out for help with. thank you a million times.
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I have prayed every chance I can every day since. The odd thing is, when I feel we are doing good, (he calls me willingly from work to talk, sleeps in the same bed, we even spent time together on a walk alone) I wake up to find him pulling away again, changing clothes with the door shut, and he changed my picture off his phone. He shows so much anger toward everything, I've been praying for him and for us, but I'm beginning to lose hope. I love him, he is my husband. but he doesn't want me, doesn't care if I love him, and more. I ask you all for prayers for my family to stay together as one, wholesome, and filled with love. We've been together 10 years and married since 2008. He said he would see a counselor with me, but just to please me, that he won't change his mind, and nothing will. so please pray, pray hard, this is the only thing i have ever reached out for help with. thank you a million times.
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