Everyone wants to stigmatise singledom and make me out to be tragic.
I think it's pointless and their is an anxiety about relationships with contraception that never result in a child. I dislike contraception and don't really know what the point of all these contraceptive relationships I'm supposed to be having is.
I mean, I have my own place, I like doing things the way I want. I'd have to share, women bring their own issues plus she'd either want a child-would uproot my life with responsibilty I don't want. Or we'd use condoms, but there may be a mistake, I may get tempted, or she may end up really wanting one like most women do, plus they bring all their own issues to it.
Overall, it only comes down to having a relationship for some company when my parents aren't around, and fending off people being pitying/patronising about singledom or loneliness. So I could do with it, but I don'tl ike sharing much, I need time alone and I don't want a kid.
What is my problem and what should I do? Can you help me tease out the crux of this issue?
Anon 'cos it is personal.
Put the internet to work for you.
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