Hi everyone, been awhile since I have been on here. Met a great women that have been dating for 5 months.. Our relationship is progressing nicely. We communicate very well etc etc. We spend alot of time together. We are past the so called "honeymoon Stage" Something i have learned about here about 4 weeks ago, is when she gets really stressed she pulls back and kind of freaks out.. We talked about it one night and i had a better understanding how she gets.Its not a big deal to me, we can work through that. She is really busy with work, her daughter, and i am busy as well. About a month ago, she told me that she lost her mojo. I said what do you mean. She said she always thinks about sex, but has not been lately. She thought it was stress related.. Im understanding and said it will be fine. We went on a quick weekend getaway with her daughter and the last night it was just the 2 of us. We were intimate that night, and she said she didnt want to waste the o pportunity as we are not alone too often. Im really supportive with her and she is a great women, and im really patient with her. SO currently its been almost 3 weeks since weve had sex. I brought up to her if she was ok, she said same thing, her mojo is not there, and she doesnt know why. I talked about how she has really been stressed etc, and she agreed. I told her i was really concerned, as to me it doesnt seem normal. She says she is still crazy about me and loves me etc. After our last talk a few nights ago i see she is trying, and she is more affectionate and making an effort,but still no sex yet. My question, is this really a legitimate reason to lose your sex drive temporarily. She told me last night not to worry, and it will work out soon. My first thought is maybe she is not attracted the same way, but she said thats not the case, and she always is honest with me. she also tells me alot that she is really thankful of how supportive and patient i am with her. Any t houghts. thanks
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