As background info: Divorced after I caught my Ex sleeping with OW. They now live together. My Ex was and is on disability for a serious work injury and collects substantial weekly benefits for the rest of his life. Of course he is always broke and behind on his bills. (I get bill collectors calling my house looking for him although we have been divorced for 2 years now.)
Early in my separation I saw an email from the OW to one of her friends which said "I finally found what I was looking for, a man to support me so I don't have to work anymore." (I saw this because I had put spyware on Ex's computer when I was gathering evidence of his cheating.) Shortly thereafter, the OW quit her job and moved in with EX (in a different town) and filed a claim for Unemployment Benefits. She put the reason as "Because I had to move to take care of my disabled boyfriend". BARF! (My ex is unable to work but does not have to be taken care of.) Her claim was denied.
Sometime last year the OW had a minor surgery on her neck. Now she is trying to claim social security disability benefits. She is claiming arm, hand pain, thigh pain and depression. The woman just turned 49 this year. I have no doubt my Ex is coaching her through this.
Anyway, the Social Security Administration denied her claim so she hired a lawyer to file Appeals for her. (I saw the paperwork in my mother-in-laws guest bathroom where she left it when they were there last week).
She states she is so disabled that she can hardly even brush her teeth. That she has to wait hours after waking up for the numbness to go away in her arm to brush her teeth and hair. That she is depressed because she had no health care insurance and can't find a job. (She told my MIL last year that she wasn't going to work again.)
Strange that she can't brush her teeth but she can hunt all day, fish all day, cook, clean, move furniture and carry her grandbaby around. Photos all over FB of these events.
A person can file a report (online) for fraudulent Social Security claims. They can ask to remain Anonymous and the Social Security won't divulge anything about who reported them.
Part of me wants to report her and part of me thinks "who cares". There are two reasons I want to report her (1) Because she deserves it for knowingly sleeping with my husband; and (2) I am sick of healthy people faking injuries and my tax money supporting them.
My son and daughter-in-law have never heard any of her complaints and weren't even aware she had filed a claimed.
What would you do? Turn her in or let it go?
Early in my separation I saw an email from the OW to one of her friends which said "I finally found what I was looking for, a man to support me so I don't have to work anymore." (I saw this because I had put spyware on Ex's computer when I was gathering evidence of his cheating.) Shortly thereafter, the OW quit her job and moved in with EX (in a different town) and filed a claim for Unemployment Benefits. She put the reason as "Because I had to move to take care of my disabled boyfriend". BARF! (My ex is unable to work but does not have to be taken care of.) Her claim was denied.
Sometime last year the OW had a minor surgery on her neck. Now she is trying to claim social security disability benefits. She is claiming arm, hand pain, thigh pain and depression. The woman just turned 49 this year. I have no doubt my Ex is coaching her through this.
Anyway, the Social Security Administration denied her claim so she hired a lawyer to file Appeals for her. (I saw the paperwork in my mother-in-laws guest bathroom where she left it when they were there last week).
She states she is so disabled that she can hardly even brush her teeth. That she has to wait hours after waking up for the numbness to go away in her arm to brush her teeth and hair. That she is depressed because she had no health care insurance and can't find a job. (She told my MIL last year that she wasn't going to work again.)
Strange that she can't brush her teeth but she can hunt all day, fish all day, cook, clean, move furniture and carry her grandbaby around. Photos all over FB of these events.
A person can file a report (online) for fraudulent Social Security claims. They can ask to remain Anonymous and the Social Security won't divulge anything about who reported them.
Part of me wants to report her and part of me thinks "who cares". There are two reasons I want to report her (1) Because she deserves it for knowingly sleeping with my husband; and (2) I am sick of healthy people faking injuries and my tax money supporting them.
My son and daughter-in-law have never heard any of her complaints and weren't even aware she had filed a claimed.
What would you do? Turn her in or let it go?
Put the internet to work for you.
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