this is my first post on this site or any site like it so this might be long fyi.
my husband and i have been friends for 14yrs dated for 9 yrs and just celebrated our one year anniversary. i love him and i am pretty sure he loves me. the problem I think we are having is he only really shows in interest in me when it comes to sex. there is very little communication otherwise. we talk about the normal stuff, bills, kids,work but almost nothing else. when I try to talk about current events or politics or just my personal day to day experiences he just nods. when i ask him about his feelings or his day i get one word responses its impossible to start a conversation with any kind of flow and when i try to pull it out of him i feel like a nag. he never compliments me unless it is sexual in some way. he makes a point and he has said this himself to compliment my butt and boobs every day. when he touches me it is usually him groping one of my body parts and when i ask him what he likes about me he almost always says its a sexual act or body part.
we have a healthy sex life he is not deprived usually we are intimate 6-10 times a week and even during sex all he talks about is the body part he is focused on .
am i being to sensitive bc i want to have conversations about or future and our goals. am i asking for to much by wanting him to compliment my smile or my eyes or tell me that im a good mother
am i reading to far into it because even during the process of lovemaking i want him to comment on the softness of my skin or the closeness he feels with me as a person as his wife not just my body
i would love to hear from males and females
my husband and i have been friends for 14yrs dated for 9 yrs and just celebrated our one year anniversary. i love him and i am pretty sure he loves me. the problem I think we are having is he only really shows in interest in me when it comes to sex. there is very little communication otherwise. we talk about the normal stuff, bills, kids,work but almost nothing else. when I try to talk about current events or politics or just my personal day to day experiences he just nods. when i ask him about his feelings or his day i get one word responses its impossible to start a conversation with any kind of flow and when i try to pull it out of him i feel like a nag. he never compliments me unless it is sexual in some way. he makes a point and he has said this himself to compliment my butt and boobs every day. when he touches me it is usually him groping one of my body parts and when i ask him what he likes about me he almost always says its a sexual act or body part.
we have a healthy sex life he is not deprived usually we are intimate 6-10 times a week and even during sex all he talks about is the body part he is focused on .
am i being to sensitive bc i want to have conversations about or future and our goals. am i asking for to much by wanting him to compliment my smile or my eyes or tell me that im a good mother
am i reading to far into it because even during the process of lovemaking i want him to comment on the softness of my skin or the closeness he feels with me as a person as his wife not just my body
i would love to hear from males and females
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