Been away from here for awhile living the dream of a BS
Wanted to ask this here see what happens.
For the BS's out there was there a moment or a time when you were on the edge (ready to end it but still unsure) and something brought you back, not something that fixed it all as I don't think there is anything that can do that. No an event, a whisper anything that brought you back, renewed your faith as it were that you could continue with them?
The questions lead to this anniversary coming up (asked before about how to handle a milestone anniversary what to do etc, things haven't been great between us the last 2 or 3 months and I see nothing but a downward progression(her infidelities almost 3 years ago have put us on this path)
As a last ditch effort I decided to go away for that weekend, cabin in the woods nothing no one around just the two of us to see if any spark exists, not only sex I am sure there will be lots of that when we are away, but some honest conversations that will give me the ability to continue this marriage.
Right or wrong I am looking at this time away as the decision maker, if things don't go well then I will start the process of D and look to put her out after the holidays, if it goes well then I will continue and see where it takes us towards the future.
While we have had conversations about our marriage I have not told her about my thoughts for our time away I don't want her to over compensate or try to sway me, I want her to act and react as she normally would.
Next weekend should be a busy time.
Wanted to ask this here see what happens.
For the BS's out there was there a moment or a time when you were on the edge (ready to end it but still unsure) and something brought you back, not something that fixed it all as I don't think there is anything that can do that. No an event, a whisper anything that brought you back, renewed your faith as it were that you could continue with them?
The questions lead to this anniversary coming up (asked before about how to handle a milestone anniversary what to do etc, things haven't been great between us the last 2 or 3 months and I see nothing but a downward progression(her infidelities almost 3 years ago have put us on this path)
As a last ditch effort I decided to go away for that weekend, cabin in the woods nothing no one around just the two of us to see if any spark exists, not only sex I am sure there will be lots of that when we are away, but some honest conversations that will give me the ability to continue this marriage.
Right or wrong I am looking at this time away as the decision maker, if things don't go well then I will start the process of D and look to put her out after the holidays, if it goes well then I will continue and see where it takes us towards the future.
While we have had conversations about our marriage I have not told her about my thoughts for our time away I don't want her to over compensate or try to sway me, I want her to act and react as she normally would.
Next weekend should be a busy time.
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