Background is that we've been together since we were very young, and got married 1.5 years ago (been together for 11 years). Sex was awesome when we were younger. We hit a rough patch the year before getting married, and just stopped having sex. We did the work to resolve the problems we were having, all the way from IC to MC etc. We're in a really great place now...
We decided we both wanted to get back into it and also wanted to have a baby. H has been saying he finds sex exhausting and really for him 1/wk is good or whatever happens naturally is great, unless it's a fertile period. I think he is LD?
Well, it's that time where we could get pregnant so we had sex 3 times this week. Then last night... we tried but he couldn't stay erect. Tried again this morning and same thing. This is the first time it's ever happened with us, though I have noticed he is taking longer to get aroused since we started trying.
He says there is nothing I can do to help, but any pointers from others who have been here?
We decided we both wanted to get back into it and also wanted to have a baby. H has been saying he finds sex exhausting and really for him 1/wk is good or whatever happens naturally is great, unless it's a fertile period. I think he is LD?
Well, it's that time where we could get pregnant so we had sex 3 times this week. Then last night... we tried but he couldn't stay erect. Tried again this morning and same thing. This is the first time it's ever happened with us, though I have noticed he is taking longer to get aroused since we started trying.
He says there is nothing I can do to help, but any pointers from others who have been here?
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