Thanks for your advice people.
I have been engaged for a year, getting married in feb and I'm incredibly nervous. I am not sure if my concerns is usual cold feet or if they are genuine.
To avoid babbling, here are the main points.
She's very loving, loves me very much, compassionate and couldn't do a bad thing if she tried. She has high morals and values, I trust once we get married she would never support a divorce.
However she is conservative and I'm very liberal, but this has never caused a serious problem, even when the arguments get heated.
She's sexy. Even though she doesn't see it. In fact I'm getting tired of her hiding her body from me and speaking bad of it.
She's not independant, can't make a decision without her parents and is very emotionally attached to them. It makes me worried about big decisions we have to make in the future, regarding kids for example. she takes her washing there, they prepare meals for her, she doesn't do either of these things at home. Sometimes I feel that she is not her own person.
We live together in a house her parents helped her buy. They gave her half the money, she didn't like this idea at the beginning, she was talked into it by her parents. Our plan was that when we get married, it gets put in our name and share the remaining mortgage payments. I was and still am not ecstatic about being dragged into this plan but it made logical sense so I went along. It makes me nervous that her parents have so much stake in our lives-I don't like or trust her parents and they don't get along with mine.
These are the main points, your thoughts would be great, I'm hoping someone experienced with this can help me clarify what is truly important and what questions I need to ask myself.
Thanks very much for your help.
I have been engaged for a year, getting married in feb and I'm incredibly nervous. I am not sure if my concerns is usual cold feet or if they are genuine.
To avoid babbling, here are the main points.
She's very loving, loves me very much, compassionate and couldn't do a bad thing if she tried. She has high morals and values, I trust once we get married she would never support a divorce.
However she is conservative and I'm very liberal, but this has never caused a serious problem, even when the arguments get heated.
She's sexy. Even though she doesn't see it. In fact I'm getting tired of her hiding her body from me and speaking bad of it.
She's not independant, can't make a decision without her parents and is very emotionally attached to them. It makes me worried about big decisions we have to make in the future, regarding kids for example. she takes her washing there, they prepare meals for her, she doesn't do either of these things at home. Sometimes I feel that she is not her own person.
We live together in a house her parents helped her buy. They gave her half the money, she didn't like this idea at the beginning, she was talked into it by her parents. Our plan was that when we get married, it gets put in our name and share the remaining mortgage payments. I was and still am not ecstatic about being dragged into this plan but it made logical sense so I went along. It makes me nervous that her parents have so much stake in our lives-I don't like or trust her parents and they don't get along with mine.
These are the main points, your thoughts would be great, I'm hoping someone experienced with this can help me clarify what is truly important and what questions I need to ask myself.
Thanks very much for your help.
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