My husband is not a big communicator, works long hours and plays games on phone on phone and doesn't go out of his way to make an effort. I attend to the kids, the housework and work part time and I feel after 15 years and two kids and lots of ups and downs we are drifting apart. we have sex once or twice a week when he needs it, I prefer for things to happen naturally but this is very very rare. The past couple of weeks he has not been interested and to be fair the last week I was unwell. We both enjoy the intimacy and for me as he is not a big communicator it is the only way we feel connected so was very surprised and please when he came up to me and hugged and kissed and was making an attempt to make love saying I want to see you...I said the kids are going to be up any minute..he said he will give me a massage later and came on me... I realised then that he wanted to see me not to make love but to relieve himself and this really hurt me...he did a pologise saying he feels really bad but by offering a massage later in the night he knew exactly what he wanted to do. I feel like he has no respect for me and feel very hurt. Am I over reacting?
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