Never married, surprise pregnancy. Joint custody, but zero discussion, which makes joint decision making impossible. Several years of trying to just live in peace, but it seems like he wants to stir up drama. He doesn't want to reconnect, but it seems like he wants me to be engaged with him, but in a negative way, which isn't threatening to him. Our child is getting old enough to notice the conflict. It is really tough sometimes to keep my cool. I'd love to work something out, but he dumped me when I was pregnant, and we never reconnected emotionally.
He's a good man and a good father. We just can't interact in a healthy way. Anybody have experience co-parenting with an avoidant or distancing type? The biggest issues are taken care of...he loves his child and he pays his child support. It is really hard to be tied to someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship with you.
He's a good man and a good father. We just can't interact in a healthy way. Anybody have experience co-parenting with an avoidant or distancing type? The biggest issues are taken care of...he loves his child and he pays his child support. It is really hard to be tied to someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship with you.
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