I posted this a few weeks ago in the LDR thread. Sorry it's a long one, but will really appreciate replies and will rep helpful ones!
Am I crazy? I'm currently dating/chasing this girl that leaves in 3.5 months to return to her home country.
She may stay for another 18 months, though it's looking very unlikely and she'll probably start university there in October- for 3 years.
I suppose you could say I've fallen for her.
I wouldn't be doing it if I didn't think it was worthwhile, or if I didn't think I could make the distance work.
But a few people who know about this, think I'm crazy because she is leaving, and that there are only 3.5 months left.
I wouldn't say it's made me reconsider...but is this stupid what I'm doing? Am I just setting myself up for heartache?
And then an update:
It's two weeks later, and still no progress. It's been hard trying to arrange a second date, but today I did it!
I think it's been hard as we've both been busy, but I get the impression she's still undecided. I think she likes me, but is unsure whether to commit because it will turn LDR.
I called her this morning to set something up for next Sunday or Monday as my boss said I could have it off!
She said that it was 'awesome' that I had it off and it sounds good (meeting up)- but she said do we have to decide now. I'm not sure if this was because she was in a loud room, needed to check her schedule...or if she still isn't sure. Or all three.
I suggested she'll think about it and let me know, or we can talk in a few days when we see each other.
So hopefully something is on the cards!
It did suddenly hit me today though with an overwhelming sadness, that she is leaving. I feel like time is running out. Everyone I know is talking about leaving parties and stuff...which is way off my mind and I'm trying to think of dating her. I feel if people knew, they'd think I'm crazy.
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Am I crazy? I'm currently dating/chasing this girl that leaves in 3.5 months to return to her home country.
She may stay for another 18 months, though it's looking very unlikely and she'll probably start university there in October- for 3 years.
I suppose you could say I've fallen for her.
I wouldn't be doing it if I didn't think it was worthwhile, or if I didn't think I could make the distance work.
But a few people who know about this, think I'm crazy because she is leaving, and that there are only 3.5 months left.
I wouldn't say it's made me reconsider...but is this stupid what I'm doing? Am I just setting myself up for heartache?
It's two weeks later, and still no progress. It's been hard trying to arrange a second date, but today I did it!
I think it's been hard as we've both been busy, but I get the impression she's still undecided. I think she likes me, but is unsure whether to commit because it will turn LDR.
I called her this morning to set something up for next Sunday or Monday as my boss said I could have it off!
She said that it was 'awesome' that I had it off and it sounds good (meeting up)- but she said do we have to decide now. I'm not sure if this was because she was in a loud room, needed to check her schedule...or if she still isn't sure. Or all three.
I suggested she'll think about it and let me know, or we can talk in a few days when we see each other.
So hopefully something is on the cards!
It did suddenly hit me today though with an overwhelming sadness, that she is leaving. I feel like time is running out. Everyone I know is talking about leaving parties and stuff...which is way off my mind and I'm trying to think of dating her. I feel if people knew, they'd think I'm crazy.
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