To start off, I want to give a little background info:
My husband and I have been married 8 months. During our marriage we have had some rough edges, I believe it is due to us trying to adjust to the change. We dated on and off for 2 years. I moved to a new state and a year later he went on a mission for naval purposes. Before Marriage I was a virgin to penetration. Sorry if that word is vulgar. I received oral just no penetration. I say that to say while my husband and I were dating we had no sex. I knew before me he had sex with quite a few women, but haven't had many serious or long term relationships, according to him they were not the "one"
Fast forward to now, we don't have as much sex as I thought it would be. Maybe my assumptions were all wrong. I thought we would be having it more than what we have been. It may be once a week or once every 2 weeks. I am actually confused, because it makes me think "what is the issue". I know I don't have much experience and I am willing to learn and do whatever. Everytime we finish sex, he always says it was sooo good. Another reason I am confused! I do know for a fact that is he is a porn watcher and always has been. I did not know that until marriage. Silly me for not asking that question because I never thought porn could damage a marriage.
My question is what is the issue? Is it the porn addiction? Can he be physically attracted to me but not sexually? I am just very confused. He says he just doesn't need it alot but when he was single it was more often. He says maybe bc it wasn't with the same girl.
Men can you pleaseeee help me with this.
Thank you,
My husband and I have been married 8 months. During our marriage we have had some rough edges, I believe it is due to us trying to adjust to the change. We dated on and off for 2 years. I moved to a new state and a year later he went on a mission for naval purposes. Before Marriage I was a virgin to penetration. Sorry if that word is vulgar. I received oral just no penetration. I say that to say while my husband and I were dating we had no sex. I knew before me he had sex with quite a few women, but haven't had many serious or long term relationships, according to him they were not the "one"
Fast forward to now, we don't have as much sex as I thought it would be. Maybe my assumptions were all wrong. I thought we would be having it more than what we have been. It may be once a week or once every 2 weeks. I am actually confused, because it makes me think "what is the issue". I know I don't have much experience and I am willing to learn and do whatever. Everytime we finish sex, he always says it was sooo good. Another reason I am confused! I do know for a fact that is he is a porn watcher and always has been. I did not know that until marriage. Silly me for not asking that question because I never thought porn could damage a marriage.
My question is what is the issue? Is it the porn addiction? Can he be physically attracted to me but not sexually? I am just very confused. He says he just doesn't need it alot but when he was single it was more often. He says maybe bc it wasn't with the same girl.
Men can you pleaseeee help me with this.
Thank you,
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