I have been married for 7 yrs now and have had some issues with my husbands phone-internet activity. About 3yrs ago I found out that he was logging on to dating sites to chat with other women. I confronted him about this and he said he was just scrolling porn and curious about these live chats. I explained to him that it made me uncomfortable and I was afraid it may spread to a more physical relationship, so he promised to stop.
So about 6mo ago I noticed he was getting a lot of e-mails for weird sites using a user name. I asked him about it and he denied it until I was finally able to prove that it was him. So once again he promised to stop and we deleted his profile from all of the sites. Well he still gets random e-mails from time to time and recently he received a very detailed one under a new user name. This e-mail states that it had been a while since that last talked but it is a reminder of the fact that indeed he did have actual conversations with other women. Even though I am almost 100% sure he is not having an affair I still can't get past this crap.
I feel angry, resentful, lied to, and can't seem to find that trust in our relationship.
HELP please! Any words of wisdom or advise are greatly appreciated.
So about 6mo ago I noticed he was getting a lot of e-mails for weird sites using a user name. I asked him about it and he denied it until I was finally able to prove that it was him. So once again he promised to stop and we deleted his profile from all of the sites. Well he still gets random e-mails from time to time and recently he received a very detailed one under a new user name. This e-mail states that it had been a while since that last talked but it is a reminder of the fact that indeed he did have actual conversations with other women. Even though I am almost 100% sure he is not having an affair I still can't get past this crap.
I feel angry, resentful, lied to, and can't seem to find that trust in our relationship.
HELP please! Any words of wisdom or advise are greatly appreciated.
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