We discuss at length about the BW and OW. What about the WS's pain and suffering? Do they suffer even a little (in comparison to BS's)?
Usually, no one else knows besides the injured parties, maybe a family member or close friend because the BS is usually afraid of the fallout/looking dumb for staying, that sort of thing. The OM/OW is out of the picture but still in pain for losing their relationship. And the WS loses what exactly?? They get a brand new husband/wife. They get HB. They get the knowledge of having two people in love with them. They get to keep their comfy lives. UGH!
I see alot of stories about how they WS was crying on the floor and the like but that stuff is temporary. We carry this forever. Not sure if the OM/OW carries the pain because they can move on and start a brand new life with some NOT a cheater and a liar.
Starting to seem a little unfair to me. Thoughts?
Usually, no one else knows besides the injured parties, maybe a family member or close friend because the BS is usually afraid of the fallout/looking dumb for staying, that sort of thing. The OM/OW is out of the picture but still in pain for losing their relationship. And the WS loses what exactly?? They get a brand new husband/wife. They get HB. They get the knowledge of having two people in love with them. They get to keep their comfy lives. UGH!
I see alot of stories about how they WS was crying on the floor and the like but that stuff is temporary. We carry this forever. Not sure if the OM/OW carries the pain because they can move on and start a brand new life with some NOT a cheater and a liar.
Starting to seem a little unfair to me. Thoughts?
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