O.K. people here is the long and the short of it. We are all going through some form of separation or divorce, but my question is to the ladies.
About a month ago the wife broke down crying stating that she in essence wanted out of out marriage of two years. I did and said what I could to change her mind, but in the end her feelings were unchanged. O.K.
We had to stay in the same house until tax time and then I would move out. Great. We don;t hate each other so we agreed to stay as friendly as possible, for the sake of the children and because we work together. Fine.
Mentally I have moved on, I'm looking and places to live and have decided that I will not enter into another long term relationship for a very long time, if ever, it's just too much work and drama.
Ok, here's the confusing part. I give her money to get her hair done, and though it looked nice, and I said as much. She felt my response to her new hair style was a bit lack luster, and when she talk about it, it seemed like she did not understand that I could care less about her hair style since it wasn't "For" me and since we don't have sex or touch beyond an occasional hug, what was I suppose to do?
My question is? is she delusional enough to think that after telling me she wants a divorce, because I did and didn't do "A,B,C, and 123", that I would still try to get her back and save the marriage?
I mean we even had a discussion about how we are free to have sex with other people now, even though we are still married. I s it me or is she missing that fact that I DON'T KNOW WHERE SHE SLEEPS AT NIGHT, and she has not bothered to tell me.
So for all I know she could be leaving me at home with our four kids at night and climbing in the bed with another man. But I'm wrong for not raving over her new hair style.
So please help me? am I the ******* here?
About a month ago the wife broke down crying stating that she in essence wanted out of out marriage of two years. I did and said what I could to change her mind, but in the end her feelings were unchanged. O.K.
We had to stay in the same house until tax time and then I would move out. Great. We don;t hate each other so we agreed to stay as friendly as possible, for the sake of the children and because we work together. Fine.
Mentally I have moved on, I'm looking and places to live and have decided that I will not enter into another long term relationship for a very long time, if ever, it's just too much work and drama.
Ok, here's the confusing part. I give her money to get her hair done, and though it looked nice, and I said as much. She felt my response to her new hair style was a bit lack luster, and when she talk about it, it seemed like she did not understand that I could care less about her hair style since it wasn't "For" me and since we don't have sex or touch beyond an occasional hug, what was I suppose to do?
My question is? is she delusional enough to think that after telling me she wants a divorce, because I did and didn't do "A,B,C, and 123", that I would still try to get her back and save the marriage?
I mean we even had a discussion about how we are free to have sex with other people now, even though we are still married. I s it me or is she missing that fact that I DON'T KNOW WHERE SHE SLEEPS AT NIGHT, and she has not bothered to tell me.
So for all I know she could be leaving me at home with our four kids at night and climbing in the bed with another man. But I'm wrong for not raving over her new hair style.
So please help me? am I the ******* here?
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