My wife and I are now not being physical anymore. She told me two weeks ago that she thinks she wants to separate, but neither of us need to be moving out anytime soon.
She currently has no job and is a stay at home mother for our 2 young children. So she wants time to get a job and save money to move out.
She says I haven't showed her enough affection over the course of the 5 years that we have been married, and she thinks she wants something else. She has mentioned to me before while already arguing that I don't show enough affection and she doesn't feel like I have fer back on things. She hates a few members of my family and basically wants me to hate them to, and is upset that I don't. She thinks i'm not in tune with my emotions and don't care about anything. She is a very emotional person. Kinda runs her life on emotion.
I am pretty upset about this and she knows it. We have been talking about what to do from here, but she wants to wait until summer to sell the house and go our separate ways. In the mean time its just awkward now. We sleep in the same bed act the same, just don't have sex, kiss or anything now, and its hard.
We talked the other day and she seemed sorta unsure she actually wanted to go through with it all.
Basically, I just dont know what to do now. Do I go stay with my parents during the week and she goes to hers on the weekends? Do I try to show her more affection and attention eventhough we are in this limbo phase now. Confused...
She currently has no job and is a stay at home mother for our 2 young children. So she wants time to get a job and save money to move out.
She says I haven't showed her enough affection over the course of the 5 years that we have been married, and she thinks she wants something else. She has mentioned to me before while already arguing that I don't show enough affection and she doesn't feel like I have fer back on things. She hates a few members of my family and basically wants me to hate them to, and is upset that I don't. She thinks i'm not in tune with my emotions and don't care about anything. She is a very emotional person. Kinda runs her life on emotion.
I am pretty upset about this and she knows it. We have been talking about what to do from here, but she wants to wait until summer to sell the house and go our separate ways. In the mean time its just awkward now. We sleep in the same bed act the same, just don't have sex, kiss or anything now, and its hard.
We talked the other day and she seemed sorta unsure she actually wanted to go through with it all.
Basically, I just dont know what to do now. Do I go stay with my parents during the week and she goes to hers on the weekends? Do I try to show her more affection and attention eventhough we are in this limbo phase now. Confused...
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