help she thinks i cheated but i didn't

hello id really really like some advice. let me start by giving some background into this thing. I work for a mobile marketing company that has me traveling around the united states for as little as 3 days at a time to as long as 7 months. on my last tour which lasted 2.5 months I drove a highly visable and recognizeable 18 wheeler to different events around the country. I had 3 co workers with me of which only 1 of them is married and he is a very well known cheater. so during this tour naturally you put a bunch of mid 20s guys together there is going to be a lot of partying drinking and the sort. the money isn't the greatest but it pays the bills and most everyday I have people tell me how lucky I am to have the job I have and how do they get a job like mine. after all who doesn't want to get free tickets to major sporting events concerts clubs etc etc. well today my wife sends me a text while shes at work saying basically I know you cheated on me last time you were on the road don't try and deny it its in black and white in your phones text messages. heres the kicker yeah I texted those guys talking it all up blah blah blah I did this last night with so and so or whatever. truth be told is I didn't I never took her back to my hotel I never went to her house. yeah I may have talked to girls on the road and flirted a little bit but as far as kissing holding hands touching having sex that never happened. that was just guy talk. I can guarantee 90% of the "sex" that the guys claim to get on the road never happened. for 2 reasons 1 is in my line of work there are 1000 other people waiting and willing to take your job and don't care what they have to do to get it so you have to be careful what you do on the road and 2 because today I may be in vegas and tomorrow I can be in los angeles and at 2 in the morning knowing we are rolling out at 7 it just doesn't make sense that all the pieces will fall into place between the time we all go back to the hotel and the time we all meet back up for breakfast in the morning. so back to the point how can I convince her that I didn't do anything inappropriate and that it was just guy talk.

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