Unconditional love

My wife demands that I have unconditional love for her kids, but I find the mere thought of unconditional love despicable and unmoral. Is the phrase "Respect is earned, not given" valid when talking about children and is this an absolute? i.e. does one "give" respect to the yob on the street corner just because he's a child?

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