| I come from a very dysfunctional family and as a result I suffered a lot of trauma and abuse. Even after 10 + years of therapy I still struggle to find a happy medium with anything. I tend to do everything in extremes. Too much or not at all. I didn't think I could ever allow myself to fully surrender and trust someone so completely the way I did with my husband. It took years and I tested that poor man more times than I can count but he hung in there and passed every time. He never complained. I went from not trusting at all to totally trusting him to the point I left myself wide open to be hurt. I've been reading the book, Not Just Friends, and it says affairs often happen because the opportunity is there. Does this mean by trusting my husband so much that I never checked up on him, I gave him the opportunity to cheat? Is there such thing as trusting someone too much? Should you check up on your spouse on a regular basis just to be sure? What i s the idea amount of trust in a marriage? |
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