| I've been married for 9 years and have been together 12 years. My wife came back from deployment last year a week before x-mas and the day she got back told me she was leaving me for another woman. She also told me she wanted me to leave the house and she wants to keep the kids. It hurt like hell and still does because I was recently discharge honorably from the military after 14 years of service and I recieved a severance pay that i practically gave to her to cover our financial sistuation. She has told me that she settled for me when she married me and that I haven't been able to satisfy her sexually in bed and that she also felt she didn't have a "real"man in the house. On top of that I begged her and cried for her to stop this nonsense and seek counseling so we can get back on track not just for the kids but for our marriage because I believe in growing old together. She went to 2 sessions and said that she didn't want to continue because she didn't want to tell the counselor about her affair with the other woman. She's done and said all kind of hurtful things like leaving me and the kids on X-mas eve to be with this woman and even went as far as to take a weekend get away to New York after she'd been gone for 6 months from me and the kids just to be with this woman. She also brought this womnan to our house when she got back from deployment and I met her thinking that she was going to be a friend of the family until my wife told me the truth about her. I've finally got the courage to start my divorce process and I know I'm doing the right thing but i feel like I didn't do enough. Is this normal? All I ever wanted was for my kids to have what me and her didn't have and that's for them (kids) to not be raised in a broken home. | 
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