| so, I live with my boyfriend and his son. I love them both dearly, I try to do everything I can think of to help and take care of them. After much discussion, it has been made clear to me that I am not going to help raise his son, its not my place. It's his son, not mine.I cannot bring suggestions or ideas my concern is keeping his son inline when he's with me and thats it. how does that work? I just don't get it. I feel that the two of us need to be united and work together, which, maybe I am jumping that too fast, but it's what comes natural to me. he's a kid, take care of him, help him. I've changed a lot of my perspectives, and am very understanding. I know that I'm learning a new situation and a new person here. I really am not understanding how I am supposed to just be a babysitter and a bystander. Or even if that's healthy? I'm really confused on this one, and a little insight or understanding would help. | |||
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