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Friend to more...what should I do next?

Ok so a few weeks ago I started to notice that one of my good friends was acting differently towards me and wasn't really sure what was going on. Here's my earlier post: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=2368251

Anyway, a few days ago I finally plucked up the courage to broach the subject with her, basically to say that I'd noticed something different and that I was now quite confused about my feelings. She said that she'd also noticed something change but hadn't really thought about taking it any further partly because we're about to leave for uni summer holidays and also because she wasn't sure if it just meant we were getting closer as friends or if it was something different. I took that to mean that she's probably just as confused about how she feels as I am. She did also so she wouldn't want to do anything to ruin our friendship as this sort of thing has happened to us both before with different people, which I also agreed with. I did say though that I thought she wouldn't hurt me like people have in the past in that way etc etc. Anyway we both agreed that it would be stupid to try and commit to something just as we're about to not see each other for a while, but I did tell her that I thought it could work between us, and when I gave my reasoning for it she seemed to agree with it. Basically we left it as leave the whole thing over the summer and then see how it goes when we're back at uni in September.

I need some help in trying to maximise my chances of something happening when we get back. I do really like the girl as more than a friend and I genuinely think that it could work as something more even though we're already such good friends. I wanted to know how I should act over the summer so that when we get back it's something she is still considering like I am. I was thinking of making regular contact over the summer and trying to make my intentions as clear as possible throughout without being too obvious about it, and then when we get back ask her out for dinner or something. Any thoughts welcome, cheers guys.




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