Drunk wife = husband paranoid. Help?

So my wife and I have been married for 13 years, and have only really been serious with each other since we dated through high school. I have battled jealousy issues for awhile and have gone to therapy and I believe I have been getting better. Now I am more of a drinker than my wife but she will on occasion have a few drinks and maybe even get drunk occasionally. Now being rational I know that she is a grown woman and I need to trust her. But part of me get so paranoid and upset when I hear about her being drunk or see her drunk unless its just the 2 of us. Even the other night we were out of town with her family and she got pretty hammered at the bar with me, her sisters and her dad and I still was pissed and kept harassing her about it even though it was obviously a safe situation. I know it sounds ridiculous but I am just seeing if anyone else is that way and how to fix it. The rest of our relationship is great I just need to work on thi s. It could be jealousy but part of me thinks it's just a control thing since when it's just the 2 of us I am fine. It's like she's not "herself" and I don't have control over things which bothers me and I don't know why. Sorry for being long winded, needed to vent. Any responses would be great, thanks. Posted via Mobile Device

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