| Me and my girlfriend were very happy together. Due to certain circumstances she felt as though friends were putting pressure on us and she ended things. This was a month ago. I attempted to talk her round, but it didn't work. She hates me for some reason, and also has a very distorted view of me - which isn't me. I have no idea what I've done, but she won't even talk to me anymore, and it doesn't make sense because we were great together. She's now seeing someone else, and he's visiting her this weekend. Yes, it makes me angry, but at the moment I can't do anything because we've blocked each others numbers, after she decided I was the worst person in the world. It's killing me, because everything she liked about me hasn't changed, yet her view of me has... and it's being amplified now this new guy is on the scene. She also suffers from major paranoia, and NEEDS people to like her - which is one of the reasons that made us split up. She also has incredible trust issues, and now says she can't trust me - for reasons I have no idea as she won't tell me. This new guy is one of her friends she's known for a couple of years, and she suddenly decided she liked him a few days after me and her splitting up. I thought nothing of it at the time as they were friends 'seeing each other', but now it's getting more serious, as far as I can tell. I don't know if she's using him to get past me or whether it's something more, I don't know. I know she's told mutual friends she want's nothing to do with me, I worry too much - when it was her worrying about our relationship and that I'm not the person I once was. I know it's not a good idea since she's my ex and I should move on, but before things get anymore serious with this new guy, how can I get her to realise I'm the same guy she liked, instead of having this distorted view of me? Muchas Gracias! | |||
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