Hello everyone, I am a sixth form student who has never been massively confident around girls. I don't know why it is just the way I am. Recently however, I decided to stop being such a p***y. So there's this girl. She lives on the same housing estate as me. The estate is not huge but not small either. We have never spoke. However I managed to find out her name because I happen to be a pro when it comes to gaining intel on people. So I decided to go ahead and add her on Facebook because after reading up it became clear that I should NEVER approach a girl whilst she is with her friends as she may act differently. Because she is usually with people when I see her, I opted for hiding behind my computer screen instead, sad I know, however I think I am glad I did. There is a significant age gap between be me and her, some may say it is too big, I am just under 3 years older and I recently turned 17. I found out about this gap through conversation with her and asked her why she thinks girls usually look older than they are (Btw, I thought I would be 1 year older at the most). She claimed that girls mature quicker and it felt like she was trying to say that it was ok for us to talk. We had a decent conversation and seemed to click quite well. I asked her questions, she responded and followed up with a similar question. It was all good. She then decided to accept a friend request I had previously sent her (Btw she had no idea who I was previously, I let her know I lived nearby and have seen her around). I figured I must have done quite well because she must trust me to accept the request. However then came the BIG PROBLEM. A few minutes after she accepted, she deleted me as a friend. This literally made me feel like s**t for a moment. I thought WHAT A RUDE BITCH. My profile is actually quite good. No embarrassing statuses, photos or friends. I then decided to maintain my new stance on life and not give a f**k what she thinks. I asked her if she deleted me and suggested that someone was you know, playing a bit of 'hard to get'. She claimed she hadn't deleted me on purpose and that it was a technical error. This put me at ease for a moment until I thought it wouldn't make sense to accept and delete someone straight away as they'd pick up like I did. Unless she was then to completely ignore me, this really would be the cold shoulder. But she didn't, she had a plausible excuse. I didn't know how to feel, until I found out something that gave me a massive shot in the arm and a boost to my ego. It turns out that two hours after I started talking to her she had updated her profile picture for the first time in 3 months. This surely cannot be a coincidence. Can it? This picture was much better than the previous one. Damn she looked good. Is she worried about her appearance around me which is, I know, a sign of attraction. What do you guys and girls think? There does seem to be some sexual tension in the conversation an d I occasionally teased her to make sure this remained. I don't want any lectures please about the age gap. Mentally we are very probably around the same age as she pointed out ;). When I look back on this, the positives massively outweigh the negatives. However I want some outside opinions. Btw I didn't add her again after I found about this technical issue. I figured her adding me would be a surefire way to see if she really is into me, and I know that you are suppose to put distance between her and you and make her do the chasing. I haven't given this enough time though yet. I was relatively smooth, charming and abit flirty. Is she into me? Is she trying to get shot of me? Is she trying to play with my head and make me lose my cool? Damn.....girls are so complicated. Any responses are much appreciated.
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