I have been married a few months but right now we live in different countries. My husband is horrific at communication. it is now 8pm and I haven't heard a word from him even though the time difference isn't outrageous. He says he is too busy and I know it is true he is busy and I have tried to be understanding but he is breaking my heart. I feel like he has no real need to talk to me, he is just duty-bound so he does all the other important things and then thinks about getting back to me. I feel very single even though I am married. In my efforts to just accept defeat in the matter, I met someone and I now have feelings for him. He is just there in every way my husband is not. I will not be having an affair with him (or at least not a sexual one) because he knows I am married and he is old-fashioned enough to draw a line there. I don't even see him regularly, he is just the guy I talk to when I want to talk someone who will respond in a time-appropriate way. That said, his friendship with me is admittedly more important to me than it should be. Anyway, I guess I just joined this site because I don't feel like there is anyone I can talk to in my world about this. I have talked to my husband repeatedly about it and he improves for a day or two but then he is back to his old self. Now I am just fed up because if someone is going to talk to you because you nagged them into it, what's the point? We've had no friction at all, he just isn't there and I feel very very very alone. Thank you for listening!
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Anyone been there?
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