A friend of mine ask my opinion on something recently and I gave her my opinion but, I would like to know other people's opinion.
My friend's sis-in-law is getting married (her husband's sister). Now my friend has 5 kids, 2 are in their 20's don't live with her, both in relationships, one has a child. Other 3 kids lives with her 2 of them are her with her husband. (13 and 8), the other (not her husband's is 18).
Now her sis-in-law is having a small wedding and invited only the people in the house, (i.e. her brother, his wife and 3 kids).
Now my friend has decided she is taking her older kids too, but didn't tell her sis-in-law as she feels they should be invited too. Her sis-in-law is saying no she can't afford for them to come as she has a small budget and didn't count those two in it as they are not in the house. My friend is not having it and thinks her sis-in-law is being selfish for not letting her two older kids come to the wedding.
i've said to my friend that I don't think her sis-in-law is being selfish as she doesn't have to invite the adult kids, also if she's on a budget, then my friend should understand , and not spoil the day. But she's insisting if all her kids can't go then she's not going. She also hasn't spoken to her sis-in-law about any of this, she's only spoken to her husband's other sister.
Help me out her please, because I don't know what else to tell her.
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