Stupid may be a strong word, let's say unwise.
I've been seeing this guy for 3 months now, we both like each other and go along like PB&J. We also see one another has potential gf/bf, which both of us haven't felt like this towards anyone in a long time [TMI: My last 'boyfriend' (not including casual dates) was 4 years ago, yup I haven't met any potentials for that long, so you get where I'm going?]
We met on a forum and went on our first date the next day. We both agreed on seeing where this goes. Throughout these 3 months we had here and there talks on what we think about each other. We never had the DTR conversation, because I told him from the start that I don't jump into relationships (and 3 months may be too soon). Just let it go smoothly, until one feels the need to ask. However, he specifically said he wants this to work.
Now here's my question. I'm only in the UK for my masters... (might continue a PhD but no guarantees...if I get a job, that would be fabulous too)...and leaving in Jan 2016. It's a long time in the future, but hey time flies. I know that the more I get to know him, the more I'd like him, making it even more painful when leaving. So I wanted to ask, would you pursue a relationship that is destined to end in maximum 5-7 months?
TL;DR seeing guy for a while now, both like each other a lot, but I'm leaving in Jan 2016. Would you go for it knowing you'll get hurt later?
Thanks.
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