Just got married last year, right now 27F. I been with my husband for almost 9 years, we're really good friends too. Thing is lately I been feeling a bit alone and having doubts about our marriage. Usually when you get married, you have a new outlook on life and work together to achieve goal. Maybe I have became more selfish, (I would always think of others first, something my husband always praises) and is not as patient as before. One thing he is bad at is saying no to others, so sometimes he either stay on the phone with them, get involved with their problem, etc. He doesn't have many friends, one of his friend who he considers to be pretty close had basically lied to him to get money supposely because he fell into hardtimes. Also the friend would come over manytimes to get drunk (whether intentionally or not). I told him it's best he's not friend with him, He basically told me if I don't want him to have any friends then fine, because that's the onl y one he can talk to on regular bases, so I decided it's not worth fighting over. We're also supporting his mom who cant work and teen sister in Ukraine. There's been a number of incidents where we had to send more money because of unexpected and emergency things, and that has basically been draining our savings. Also the mom and sister fights alot, and he has to talk with the mom alot and get stressed out about his rebellious sister. Apparently they can't tell any relatives there because they don't know about us sending money. I feel bad because I know he's stressed out too, but I bare the financial burden of it because I manage the money. We don't even spend that much time together because we're both tired after work, he likes to stay in his room to smoke and give sometimes to himself. When I bring things up with him, its just really hard for anything to change.
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