So I'm in a pretty damn complicated situation. I'll try to condense so it's as short as possible, here goes nothing:
So there's this girl on my floor at uni accommodation (sounding bad already I know) who I've liked for absolutely ages, as in fell for her in about a month of arriving to uni. However there was the issue of a boyfriend back then. Not sure why but I have a serious issue with moving on from people and when I fall for someone I tend to fall hard so here we are 7-8 months later and I still really like her. We're really good mates and are always having a laugh with each other. I found out this week that she is no longer with her boyfriend, he broke up with her about 2 weeks ago, but couldn't properly ask her about it as we were surrounded by mates in a public place so I didn't want to make her burst into tears. From the brief conversation about it she seemed pretty upset though. It was a pretty long relationship 1-2 years.
So the answer should be simple right? Talk to her about it when more suitable to obviously check she's alright and comfort her whilst trying to figure out how upset she is about it all, then when the time is right and I feel she is ready, make a move. Only thing is we have 3/4 weeks of uni left and so I'm not sure if I can wait. On one hand I really don't want to be too hasty with this but seeing as these weeks will include exams and revision there will be limited chances to see her. Equally if I don't make a move and she comes back in September with another boyfriend I'll hate myself for doing nothing.
Oh and also I'm living in the same house as her next year. Thought I should mention that little detail... :S
Really wasn't that short but oh well, It's a pretty nuts situation. Guyz plz any thoughts? Should I wait or nah? :(
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