I need some perspective. My MIL posted a vacation pic of her family from years ago. My H and his ex are in the pic. When I saw it I got obviously got upset. I'm not so much as upset with her as I am with H response to me. I totally get that she has gone through a lot with her H passing a couple years ago and probably just reminiscing on old pics. When I told H that it makes me upset though he got angry with me. Saying I should just get over it and that he wouldn't approach his mom about it. He said that he's not confrontational and he doesn't want to start a fight with his mom. I totally get that. This happened a year ago and it still makes me upset by how he treated me. At first I did ask him to ask her to take the pic down which he refused. Ok I can handle that. But I got nothing but nastiness and anger from him about it I told him I just wanted him to acknowledge that it upset me but he just kept defending her. I just feel disrespected and that other people's feelings matter more than mine. Any insight on this???
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