a week ago I got a phone call that my husband has been having an affair. To say the least I am devistated!! He tells me he does love me. but is not sure he is "in" love with me. I asked him does he love her? he said he thinks so. We have been together 32 yrs, married 25 yrs we have two children over 18 yrs old. he said he is not sure if he wants to end our marriage yet, the other women asked him to leave me and move in with her, but he said he is not ready to move in with her yet. I know this sounds insain but he wants to keep seeing her and still live with me while he figures out who he wants to be with! So for the past week, he spends the week day at home with me and the week ends with her. when he is at home with me he makes me feel he wants me, even though he does tell me he does want her also. How can he love us both? Since I found out we have had sex twice, but he also had sex with her. I am so confused. I love him so much and want him more than eve r, I cant bare to lose him. What do I do? Do I let him keep his mistress and see if she is worth leaving our home and family for? I am trying so hard to save our marriage but what happens if he choices her instead? We have not told anyone about this, so I have NO ONE to talk to just my husband. So when he is with her I am at home alone trying to keep a brave face on infront of our kids, while I am going crazy in my head knowing they are together. Please help, what should I do??
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