Experts say men score higher in libido, while women's sex drive is more "fluid"......Sex Drive: How Do Men and Women Compare?- WebMD
I would like to hear from members here...your thoughts... if you feel this article is balanced.. reasonably accurate...or segments of it needs wiped... and if so....please explain.. give your counter (links, studies)....
I have been corrected a few times when I have written anything to suggest men's brains = ...or when I say "MEN LOVE SEX!!".. "their penis is their 1st love"..... I am reminded women are just as sexual...it's an "equal" split down the middle... that we've been lied too...shamed.. and our culture is holding women back...
It's been said only in the last decade that women are coming forward saying they have a higher sex drive over their husbands.. which has been difficult for them -fearing they will be labeled unlady like or something worse... some suggest it's just now being recognized that women are sexual beings...this seems very odd to me... but OK....
On TAM, we surely know it isn't so!!.... it's not even true in my own marriage ..I'd calculate my drive as 3 times higher over my H's for a few yrs back...He could hardly handle me!..yet still for our 1st 19 yrs...HE WAS THE HIGHER DRIVE, sexually frustrated partner (even if he tried to stuff it).... I can't deny this...
What are your thoughts, experiences, opinions on this subject..it's a faceted issue .... says in the article..
Who's been the Higher drive partner in your marriage.. has it switched over the years ? Then on top of all of this.. did we play a part in squashing our partners libido...for them loosing desire for us....Resentment very common...physiological , psychological etc etc....
I would like to hear from members here...your thoughts... if you feel this article is balanced.. reasonably accurate...or segments of it needs wiped... and if so....please explain.. give your counter (links, studies)....
I have been corrected a few times when I have written anything to suggest men's brains = ...or when I say "MEN LOVE SEX!!".. "their penis is their 1st love"..... I am reminded women are just as sexual...it's an "equal" split down the middle... that we've been lied too...shamed.. and our culture is holding women back...
It's been said only in the last decade that women are coming forward saying they have a higher sex drive over their husbands.. which has been difficult for them -fearing they will be labeled unlady like or something worse... some suggest it's just now being recognized that women are sexual beings...this seems very odd to me... but OK....
On TAM, we surely know it isn't so!!.... it's not even true in my own marriage ..I'd calculate my drive as 3 times higher over my H's for a few yrs back...He could hardly handle me!..yet still for our 1st 19 yrs...HE WAS THE HIGHER DRIVE, sexually frustrated partner (even if he tried to stuff it).... I can't deny this...
What are your thoughts, experiences, opinions on this subject..it's a faceted issue .... says in the article..
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Study after study shows that men's sex drives are not only stronger than women's, but much more straightforward. The sources of women's libidos, by contrast, are much harder to pin down. It's common wisdom that women place more value on emotional connection as a spark of sexual desire. But women also appear to be heavily influenced by social and cultural factors as well. "Sexual desire in women is extremely sensitive to environment and context," |
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