OK, Valentines Day is coming up. I have been married to my wife for over 40 years. I am 66 and my wife is 65. Two adult kids (out of the nest) and two grandchildren. My wife is LD, and I am HD, which is a source of friction in our marriage, but one we seem to have adjusted to and compromised one with the help of a sex therapist and marriage conseling several years ago.
My request is for suggestions on Valentines Day presents to give my wife, that will not hurt her feelings. Seriously. I have some thoughts, but they are getting pretty old and reptatative by now.
My wife will not wear lingerie and feels they are insulting to her. She has body self image problems. She is sexually inhibited. I have asked about couples massage or day at a spa with a massage, and she has yelled at me that she will not get naked or half-naked in front of another person for any reason. I have tried pedicure gift certificates and while she likes that, she is so a fraid of catching some disease, that past coupons have not been used. She will not do couples massage or dance classes. She will not go into a sex shop to look at anything. Just about every piece of clothing I have ever bought has either been returned or never worn.
She is concerned about her weight so chocolates, going out to a nice dinner, are not in the cards. Cards are not in the cards as she things they are fake emotions. She is also frugal, so expensive things are not desired, even though we can afford them.
Again, what I was hoping for was some suggestions on non food, non-expensive, non-any-hint of sexuality things I could give my wife for Valentines Day. I was hoping for some new ideas.
thanks.
My request is for suggestions on Valentines Day presents to give my wife, that will not hurt her feelings. Seriously. I have some thoughts, but they are getting pretty old and reptatative by now.
My wife will not wear lingerie and feels they are insulting to her. She has body self image problems. She is sexually inhibited. I have asked about couples massage or day at a spa with a massage, and she has yelled at me that she will not get naked or half-naked in front of another person for any reason. I have tried pedicure gift certificates and while she likes that, she is so a fraid of catching some disease, that past coupons have not been used. She will not do couples massage or dance classes. She will not go into a sex shop to look at anything. Just about every piece of clothing I have ever bought has either been returned or never worn.
She is concerned about her weight so chocolates, going out to a nice dinner, are not in the cards. Cards are not in the cards as she things they are fake emotions. She is also frugal, so expensive things are not desired, even though we can afford them.
Again, what I was hoping for was some suggestions on non food, non-expensive, non-any-hint of sexuality things I could give my wife for Valentines Day. I was hoping for some new ideas.
thanks.
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