Hello lovely people
I'm really confused and would appreciate your good perspective, as always.
My husband and I had some conversation today, things were getting pretty emotional and I could sense I was about to start crying. He wants to meet to discuss how we're going to proceed with the divorce, splitting assets etc.
I'm finding the whole process incredibly devastating, considering I didn't want any of it, and the fact that the issues between us are to do with things I couldnt control - or didnt know how to manage. I've missed him so terribly and would love us to be able to have our marriage together - things are so different now and the issues that were concerns for him are no longer present as before.
All the pain of separation has been brutal and miserable, for both of us, though we continued to live life struggling through the stages of grief, suicidal thoughts and all horrible emotions.
In our conversation today, I told him I didn't want anything from the divorce, just what I brought to the marriage, that I didn't want any of this and I didn't want to be divorced. I told him I'm only going along with the proceedings because he wants it, that i cant stop the process that he's started
He seemed to struggle a bit with this and he said he didn't want any of it either - we're going through a process that neither of us wants and we don't know what's going to be the outcome
I am really confused, this seems so STUPID, what's it all for?
Why?
My brain is melting ........
Help me understand, please!
Hugs
Peppy x
I'm really confused and would appreciate your good perspective, as always.
My husband and I had some conversation today, things were getting pretty emotional and I could sense I was about to start crying. He wants to meet to discuss how we're going to proceed with the divorce, splitting assets etc.
I'm finding the whole process incredibly devastating, considering I didn't want any of it, and the fact that the issues between us are to do with things I couldnt control - or didnt know how to manage. I've missed him so terribly and would love us to be able to have our marriage together - things are so different now and the issues that were concerns for him are no longer present as before.
All the pain of separation has been brutal and miserable, for both of us, though we continued to live life struggling through the stages of grief, suicidal thoughts and all horrible emotions.
In our conversation today, I told him I didn't want anything from the divorce, just what I brought to the marriage, that I didn't want any of this and I didn't want to be divorced. I told him I'm only going along with the proceedings because he wants it, that i cant stop the process that he's started
He seemed to struggle a bit with this and he said he didn't want any of it either - we're going through a process that neither of us wants and we don't know what's going to be the outcome
I am really confused, this seems so STUPID, what's it all for?
Why?
My brain is melting ........
Help me understand, please!
Hugs
Peppy x
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