(**not looking for direct sex tips since that's not allowed)
I met my new girlfriend about 2 weeks ago and everything has been great so far, apart from the sex. She was a little shy in the beginning, but we had sex and have done it about 15 times since our first time.
I believe I'm pretty good in bed, at least been told so many times. I've been with over 10 girls and never had a problem pleasing them. I've noticed there are massive differences between girls of course, everyone likes different things etc, but usually there has been always at least one way to make a girl orgasm. I've tried very long foreplay, and I don't orgasm quickly myself. I can pretty much control how long I go on for, so that isn't the issue either.
With this girl I feel like I've tried everything, but she just isn't able to come. She seems to enjoy oral quite a bit, but even if I go on for very long it's not enough to make her orgasm. Normal sex she maybe finds OK but I don't think she likes it too much..
It's always me who initiates when we have sex. I feel like she is purely doing it to please me because she likes me, which feels very bad. I feel like I'm using her as a masturbation device - but I just want to make her feel good and happy.
Otherwise we are very affectionate, she clearly shows that she likes me. We cuddle and kiss a lot etc..
This makes me really upset as I feel pretty useless.. sex should be about mutual enjoyment and a big part of my own enjoyment is seeing a girl love what I'm doing with her.
I've been trying to get her to tell me what she likes and what can I do to her that she would love. She's a little shy talking about the subject and I'm not sure if she has actually ever had an orgasm in her life (although 26 years old).
What should I do?
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