Hello all!
This is an update. I moved out a few months ago, I still take care of all bills on house and give money every week. She is mad at me, I mean she acts like I did something to her for leaving. She also has been bringing up things from the past that are not true. Saying I did this and that with other girls but it is not true. I am trying to be her friend and I do miss her some, but when I am nice and take her and our daughter somewhere to eat she seems to think I need to apologize to her for how I have hurt her for me leaving the family. I just want it to be a nice time, I always tell her I want a good relationship between us for the sake of our child. She seems to worry more about all the stuff that is hers. I offered to sit down and go over who gets what and not take it to a judge to decide. She said someone else needs to do it.
My question is.... why does this come back on me? With all this craziness I have a new outlook on life. This women was my best friend, now she wants to ruin me. Is it because she is mad at what she has done? When I tell her she broke my heart she argues with me. She says she wants the marriage but has always somehow pushed the blame back on me. (She will say I am sorry for what I did to you, it was the biggest mistake of my life but...) All I did is went to work one day, then I woke up with a mess of a life. We have been separated for 8 months with me not living in house for 4. I miss my family (before she cheated) but now I am just so disappointed in this woman it hurts bad. I feel sorry for her. I'm a great dad and person, I finally believe this again.
Hope everyone has a great day and trys to look at the positive things in your life, it's hard sometimes but that's what I do everyday and it helps to not let my mind steer off to the bad parts.
EDIT.... She knows I do not want to reconcile
This is an update. I moved out a few months ago, I still take care of all bills on house and give money every week. She is mad at me, I mean she acts like I did something to her for leaving. She also has been bringing up things from the past that are not true. Saying I did this and that with other girls but it is not true. I am trying to be her friend and I do miss her some, but when I am nice and take her and our daughter somewhere to eat she seems to think I need to apologize to her for how I have hurt her for me leaving the family. I just want it to be a nice time, I always tell her I want a good relationship between us for the sake of our child. She seems to worry more about all the stuff that is hers. I offered to sit down and go over who gets what and not take it to a judge to decide. She said someone else needs to do it.
My question is.... why does this come back on me? With all this craziness I have a new outlook on life. This women was my best friend, now she wants to ruin me. Is it because she is mad at what she has done? When I tell her she broke my heart she argues with me. She says she wants the marriage but has always somehow pushed the blame back on me. (She will say I am sorry for what I did to you, it was the biggest mistake of my life but...) All I did is went to work one day, then I woke up with a mess of a life. We have been separated for 8 months with me not living in house for 4. I miss my family (before she cheated) but now I am just so disappointed in this woman it hurts bad. I feel sorry for her. I'm a great dad and person, I finally believe this again.
Hope everyone has a great day and trys to look at the positive things in your life, it's hard sometimes but that's what I do everyday and it helps to not let my mind steer off to the bad parts.
EDIT.... She knows I do not want to reconcile
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