Hello-
I am new to this site and have reached out because I am in desperate need of advice.
I have been in my relationship for a little over 4 years and the biggest issue that I have continues to rip between my relationship. To begin, my man has never met my father. My father has always been a distance figure in my life and when he comes around, I cant say no or not see him. My man wants NOTHING to do with him. He actually despises him. In fact, this past weekend, my sister graduated from college and we had a gathering and when I went to introduce my father to him, he refused. It crushed me. I guess I cant understand why, it isnt like my father beat me, abused me in anyway, he simply, just wasnt there in my life for much of anything.
The second problem I have is, my other sister is getting married in July and he doesnt want to go. In fact, he never wants to go to family gatherings that have to deal with this sister. Mainly, because she will never bend and do anything for us. In my mind, I dont care, its my family and I dont have a big one. I am going to the wedding for my sister and my nieces.
This causes so many fights and honestly I cant take it anymore. Am I over exaggerating? Should I just allow him yo skip out on my family get togethers?
P.S. I dont enjoy his family 100% of the time, but I go to everything. Family is very important to me and I expect my other half to be there for me and my family.
Any advice is appreciated.
Thanks
I am new to this site and have reached out because I am in desperate need of advice.
I have been in my relationship for a little over 4 years and the biggest issue that I have continues to rip between my relationship. To begin, my man has never met my father. My father has always been a distance figure in my life and when he comes around, I cant say no or not see him. My man wants NOTHING to do with him. He actually despises him. In fact, this past weekend, my sister graduated from college and we had a gathering and when I went to introduce my father to him, he refused. It crushed me. I guess I cant understand why, it isnt like my father beat me, abused me in anyway, he simply, just wasnt there in my life for much of anything.
The second problem I have is, my other sister is getting married in July and he doesnt want to go. In fact, he never wants to go to family gatherings that have to deal with this sister. Mainly, because she will never bend and do anything for us. In my mind, I dont care, its my family and I dont have a big one. I am going to the wedding for my sister and my nieces.
This causes so many fights and honestly I cant take it anymore. Am I over exaggerating? Should I just allow him yo skip out on my family get togethers?
P.S. I dont enjoy his family 100% of the time, but I go to everything. Family is very important to me and I expect my other half to be there for me and my family.
Any advice is appreciated.
Thanks
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