Just looking for some advice please?
I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy, and we text daily, call every few days to a week, etc. Alongside snapchatting.
The only bad part I'm trying to overcome is trust issues, I have the gut feeling that I trust him, but I've had very bad experiences with guys in the past where I've been constantly cheated on and had a father leave me after cheating on my mum repeatedly.
I always work myself up in my head that I shouldn't trust anyone, yet, then when I've calmed down remember that he isn't anything like guys from my past or my father, and wish more than anything I could wipe the slate clean and forget everything that happened before.
What I'm asking, as I really want to give it a proper chance with this new guy, is there any way to overcome past trust issues? I mean, this new guy doesn't even give me any reason to doubt him, he does the opposite and I really don't want my negativity to ruin anything.
Thankyou in advance for any amazing help anyone could give!
I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy, and we text daily, call every few days to a week, etc. Alongside snapchatting.
The only bad part I'm trying to overcome is trust issues, I have the gut feeling that I trust him, but I've had very bad experiences with guys in the past where I've been constantly cheated on and had a father leave me after cheating on my mum repeatedly.
I always work myself up in my head that I shouldn't trust anyone, yet, then when I've calmed down remember that he isn't anything like guys from my past or my father, and wish more than anything I could wipe the slate clean and forget everything that happened before.
What I'm asking, as I really want to give it a proper chance with this new guy, is there any way to overcome past trust issues? I mean, this new guy doesn't even give me any reason to doubt him, he does the opposite and I really don't want my negativity to ruin anything.
Thankyou in advance for any amazing help anyone could give!
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